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Surprises

At some point in the past, a year or two into recovery when general fears of life began to lift, the idea of inclusivity began to take hold. A lot of time has passed since then, and despite the added years of living according to certain principles, old ways have crept in and, in moments of healthy insight and memory it is a little surprising to find how life reverts back to survival mode.

The idea of inclusivity cures so much. It’s real easy to blame others for the us vs. them mentality, but it isn’t apparent that it is someone else’s doing.

A recent incident, the last in a similar string, made this point unignorable. It is strange to be overlooked when in clear view and close proximity. At this point in life, not exactly hurtful, but the memory of what it does to include any and all makes one wonder why live any other way. And, if I’m expecting this or wanting this from others I must be willing to be an example myself.

Occasionally something will happen, something big like the U.S, bombing another country and that seems to put a perspective in order where the only logical move, to me anyway, is to treat people according to the golden rule-something easily laid claim to and much less frequently done. Remembering to include, notice, and treat everyone with respect and affection makes a huge difference in the way life feels.